This episode is about what that feels like, and WHY we do that!
Blame shows up when we’re desperately trying to make sense of the senseless. It can feel protective, even logical, but it slowly chips away at our sense of worth and hope.
In this episode, we explore how blame sneaks into our thinking, what it does to our bodies and relationships, and how we can gently move toward compassion instead of self-criticism.
Jesse and Doug dive into the topic of blame. Blame is part of a larger story about control, vulnerability, and the longing for answers. Understanding it can transform how we see ourselves and how we move through infertility.
Together we explore how blame forms, why it sticks, and what it means to slowly let go of it.
If you have ever felt like you blame yourself during infertility, this episode is for you.

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